Tuesday, August 28, 2007
My Bikram Yoga Experience..

Last Friday, I reluctantly enrolled in the trial session offered by Bikram Yoga in Timog Branch. I arrived an hour before our first session in time for the one-on-one briefing with our instructress. Just like other bikram yoga instructors (yogi), she was also trained by Bikram Choudhury himself. Here’s what I learned during my first try:

Bikram Yoga, also known as Hot Yoga, is a style of yoga developed by Bikram Choudhury (also known as the “yogi to Hollywood stars”). I was advised to wear light and fitted clothes since the room is heated to 105°F (40.5°C) with a humidity of 40% therefore we will sweat a lot (and I mean A LOT).. . During classes we were guided by specific dialogue including 26 postures and two breathing exercises (inhale thru nose with snoring sound and exhale thru mouth with hissing sound). Classes lasted for 90-minutes and I was able to do ALL 26 asana (postures)! Well not all, hehe.. But hey, I tried :)

A day after my trial session, I can’t bend my back and I can hardly walk upstairs.. But after a while I felt better and lighter. So, am I up for the challenge? Let’s see ;)

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Friday, August 24, 2007
To yoga or to aero?

My attempt to be healthy will start soon. :)

Haven't decided though whether to take Bikram Yoga classes or to enroll in Fitness First. To help me choose which fitness regimen should I pursue, my officemate and I visited both facilities.

First stop was Fitness First in MOA where they offer lower rates for Fitness First Passport since the MOA fitness centre is yet to be opened come October this year. A one-time registration fee of Php1,850 plus a monthly fee of Php 2,200 for a minimum of one-year contract is all you need to pay. I have to decide asap to avail of the pre-selling rate otherwise I shall be paying an additional Php 5,000 membership fee plus the regular monthly rates of Php 2,400+. Pros: Aside from the tempting pre-selling rates, FF has several branches around the Metro (MOA, Robinson’s Manila & Lopez Drive in QC are the most convenient branches), flexible work-out schedule, modern equipment and several work-out alternatives such as dancing, pilates, yoga, etc. Cons: Though I AM committed (or so I think), im still in doubt whether I will stick to the work-out schedule and given the minimum contract of one year, my credit card is again on the verge of danger! Haha… I know FF is known for being strict to membership cancellation or even just freezing the account. I have previously experienced this last year when I helped out my cousin in terminating her membership. Hay, naku ang hirap kausap ng kanilang AE’s.

Another option is the Bikram Yoga. We dropped by at the Tomas Morato branch in time to see an actual yoga class. Peeking from the frosted glass door, we saw how the students sweat inside the heated room as they try different yoga postures. Hmm.. I think I can do that too! They offer an introductory package for beginners at Php 1,000 which allows 3 classes over a 7-day period. After which, one can choose from several packages available depending on the preferred frequency of classes. Pros: I have been experiencing back pains for months now (due to stress – wedding prep perhaps?) and bikram yoga promises to help ease out the pain aside from other benefits such as promoting weight loss, building strength & flexibility, increasing energy. Cons: It only has two branches (the other one is located in Makati), relatively more expensive compared to FF rates.

So which one should I choose? I only have more or less 7 months to loose extra pounds, tone my muscles (dream on) and gain some energy. Our wedding prep is by far the hardest task I’ve ever been given. At the end of the day I feel so exhausted and drained na yet I still can’t sleep at night as there are 101 things to-do’s running through my head! Hay…

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Sunday, August 12, 2007
The Hunt Is On II [My New Yorker Experience]

My bebe’s birthday is coming up and I want to give him the list of our wedding accomplishments so far. One of the major suppliers we need to finalize is the bridal couturier. And after my visit to Veluz’s shop right after my Palawan trip, I’m hell bent to find an alternative couturier as I find her price quite steep. But mind you, Veluz is really, really good. I find her creations very Monique Lhuillier as it comes out very elegant and ethereal with her lace or piña gowns. Oh, I would so love to wear a Veluz gown but felt a pang of guilt knowing that I would just wear it once. Besides, I wanna show Loel that I really made all efforts possible to find the most affordable but reliable suppliers.

So after reading several good reviews on FL Concepts’ creations, I immediately asked for an appointment and dragged mom to Makati. Tina, the owner of the shop [which is also known as New Yorker], is somewhat snob in the beginning. She is a pretty mestiza who went straight to business when I introduced myself. Of course, I brought with me my precious black folder where I keep all the photos and designs of gowns I find pretty and all other clippings for our wedding. Sort of a wedding bible sa dami ng articles, hehe..

Tina sounded intimidating, as she shoots down my description of what my dream gown would look like. But that’s fine with me. So long as she can deliver well. I was thinking baka nga I was quite confusing giving her tons of photos and some hazy sketches. =)

After discussing our wedding details, Tina warmed up and she ushered me to the dressing room to try on some of her available creations. I’m glad mom brought our digicam so I was able to document the gown designs. The purpose of this trial is to check out which bodice and skirt style will fit my body frame. And as evident in the photos, I so enjoyed the whole process. It gives you the feeling that, “yes, I am indeed a bride!”



Ahmm,I’m not gifted.. so I would probably need more pads.. hehe..


Showing off my Palawan tan! I have to shed some pounds though as we can’t zip up this size 0 gown! :(


Can I instead wear black to look slimmer? Hehe.. Kidding. Just imagine this in white sans the gigantic ribbon. Surprisingly, Loel liked this 3rd one best. He said, bagay daw pala sakin trumpet style kahit bottom-heavy.. Hmmm..



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Wednesday, August 1, 2007
Anything Less than Mad Love is a Waste of Time..
i sent the article below to my fiance' just to share how much i value my being 'madly in-love' and him reciprocating that feeling (hopefully). you see, i used to feel that he was the one who got away and that i will never be happy with anyone else but him (looong story).. anyway, he called me up as soon as he read the email. apparently, i already did share the same article with him years back. i searched my files & saw that i did send him a letter with the article in june 2003. that was 4 years ago. :) it warms my heart knowing he remembers even my littlest gestures. he still surprises me after all these years.

im sharing the excerpts from the article by leah castaneda, a columnist of manila standard:

"I don't want to be sixty years old and married to my second-best choice, wondering what ever happened to the one who got away." --- "Dream for an Insomniac"

This is just one of the two great lines in that movie. I'll tell you what the other one is later. Meantime, let me concentrate on this line -- the line that sends chills down your spine once you decide to spend more than five seconds thinking about it. Have you ever wondered what it must feel like married to the one you settled on? This truly gives me great feelings of anxiety. It might be difficult to accept the word "settle" because it conjures up images of quasi-happiness and half-hearted glee. Yes, there is some sort of satisfaction and perhaps, some feeling of security that can be derived from such a partnership but I wonder, could there be anything more? To settle is to ultimately accept what is within reach, what is available, what is there. To settle is to convince one's self that the decision about to be made is inevitable, realistic, and safe. To settle is to risk not ever being truly happy because one decides to adopt the worst type of bahala na attitude on life's greatest challenges. And settling is a sorry consequence of the passage of time. Yes, time can be the balm that soothes open, painful wounds in one's heart but it can also be that dark force that manipulates one's mind into thinking and believing that the choice one has made is the best choice... the only choice. What time does, and I'm sure you'll agree, is it lodges one's mind and heart in a cage with the door partly open -- with the promise of a better life losing its appeal over the reality of the present, the convenient, and the routine. Time also pressures one into selecting a suitor or spouse because 'wala nang iba' (there is no one else) and 'nagmamadali na ako' (I'm in a hurry) and there, 'puwede na rin.' (I'll make do).

The wickedness of "settling" is not one way. It also eventually hurts the one who was chosen because in all respects, the truth will surface. You no doubt realize that you just wasted each other's time and emotions. But then again, if your spouse chose you not because he or she "settled," then forget about the win-win situation you were gunning for. Sometimes, our hearts win out over our brains when our certainty over the outcome is great.

But... "Anything less than mad, passionate love is a waste of my time." I am of the belief that each person is given the chance to find his one true love as he goes about his life. Sometimes, the opportunity is not too obvious, especially for those who are content with their situation and therefore are not seeking "greener pastures." These times, the chance is often passed up. The luckier ones are those who are probably more clear-minded and in touch with their emotions because they can easily recognize what is staring them in the face. Whether this chance is passed up or not, I know that the feeling one gets when this chance is still within reach is one of certainty. Yes, it is also accompanied with feelings of danger, of risk, and of possible pain but compensating for this is that inexplicable "sureness," that sense of profound happiness that has never been derived anywhere else but from that one person who just happened to pass by in your tidy little life. Follow The Rules in your daily life but have the wisdom and the humility to recognize a gift from the heavens when it is given to you. I call true love a gift because of its rarity. It does not happen everyday. If you pass it up the first time, try not to be too arrogant to look away when it comes by the second time. You may ask me "how will I know if this is my true love?" My answer to that is this: true love is that strong, awesome feeling that scares the hell out of you but always makes you unbearably happy. It doesn't go away, no matter how much you will it to.

More than anything else, you'll know in your heart when you meet him that he is the one. He doesn't become the one the same way that soulmates do not become soulmates later in life. With him, you are damn certain that you are not settling. With him, you know that you will be sixty years old and never wondering about the one that got away because he never did..

He's right there holding your hand.



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